Manifestation and existence

 

Manifestation is something human calls to the reality which was imagination a time before. Means manifestation is the name given to the super transformation of energy by efforts. Not so clear! Let's go a little deeper and find the essence. So suppose you wanted to be a doctor in your childhood and you made a plan that in this time I'm going to accomplish this much task. Then time passed gradually and you accomplished the decisions what you've decided for. A day comes when you becomes a super duper doctor and you think about the past how you proceeded for this. So manifestation doesn't only take energy it also takes time, patience and perseverance. Similar is the concept of reality, we only say the things exists when we become able to feel them, sensually or physically. We only say or thinks about head when headache happens, otherwise head doesn't happens for us. Similarly mind or in hindi '' Mann'' is also an ailment which is the main cause between the existence and the imagination, when we read something and we have the Idea that I'm reading than actually you are not reading because when you will be there reading won't be there both can't exist simultaneously and you have to transform yourself into the reading itself. Similar is the case with every action and it's reaction. 

So manifestation always starts from mind and then it transform and this transformation takes many steps to go through. It's similar to making a pot, first we think about the size and posture of the pot then step by step we prepare it in our consciousness and then we follow the same steps in the reality and things and energy and physical material transforms in the well designed pot. It applies for every aspect and every type of manifestation required. So most fundamental thing is we are living the life designed by inspirations and it can be completely our design. But we are not so good designers and we can destroy the very design of life itself that's why nature only handover this charge to the people who have the capacity to handle this. That's why life is the ultimate judge itself. Once I was sitting in Gurudwara Sahib there Katha was going on and concluding the story in short, there was a person who wanted to have water then he went to the Sea with a little vessel and got water from it, beside him there was another person, who was holding a little bigger vessel than him, he also took some water from it. Then there the person realised truth about the sufferings and happines of the life. So can you determine what did he understand?

He understood that there is infinite water in the sea but I can only gave the quantity according to my vessel, similarly before weeping against God we all should also understand that we have not as much calibre as required to fulfill the requirements. Hence we are disappointed at the situations of life. We are not capable of holding the treasure of life that's why we don't have. 

Now the question arises, what about the people born in affluent families and they becomes capable without any effort. Actually effort was there, the only difference is that they need not put the same amount of effort which is needed to be put by the people with severe conditions. Effort is same, difference is, most people get the results of the efforts putted by the parents and most people have to start from the starting. But good things about the justice of nature is nothing is fix there that, that much amount of time and energy is required to manifest this. Because there is another thing which occurs simultaneously and that thing is the intelligence. You just need to explore your intelligence and very small amount of time and energy will be super transforming. So what is this intelligence and How can we explore it, I will have to explore the topic with more clear understanding and till this, be happy Keep learning.

Expectation, reality and results

 

Before I go forth, I want to remind us all that we are there to understand every situation of life and obviously to find its solution. So proceeding with today's dilemma. Dilemma was that when we don't get attention enough and also when we don't give attention enough and ultimately anger erupts inside. Is it good that our anger comes outside or bad? Considering a simple situation Let me put myself in situation, when I feel I'm not getting the respect enough and attention enough by the people. I feel down and my vibes definitely go down. Why does it happen and what should be the solution? So if we find the truth then truth is, it's very difficult to modify the people than modifying ourself. People will keep trying hurt you and they don't know they are hurting you. Solution is, instead of modification of the people modify the self, the self according to better perfection in the situation. It's good when inner change the outer but it's bad when outer changes the inner.

So, problem only becomes opportunity when we tend to understand this. To leave the dilemma of every situation let's remember a thing and that's truth and truth is, we all are not permanent there. The anger, zealous, are poisons that we drink and we expect some one else to die. Life doesn't work this way. Infected people live in every street and possibility to get infected is more than 90 percent. Osho says when Meditation comes in experience jealousy become care, Hate become love and craving becomes control. This is how Meditation becomes miracle. So by listening or by the act of others when you get disappointed, it's not just their fault, it's your fault too. Because it means we don't have complete control over our own emotions. So before treating the others let's treat our own self first. So sorry for shifting the topic- so topic was why we feel disappointed when we don't get our expectations fulfilled and why we feel deep joy when we get our expectations fulfilled. Let's elaborate the ways, so expectations are just like space which is blank and space get filled when the situations comes according to the expectations. When situation bye pass themselves from expectations they remains blank and ultimately disappears and leave a stroke over there. Finally they go away and you become strong for the next time, because healing of that stroke is going to make it mature. So there are two solutions to not to feel disappointed, one is that get expectations unfulfilled first then have the pain and maturity will be there after this pain. Another is understand the situation that why does it happen? How can we resolve or fix ourself so that we can be away from the situation instead of being in the life? Pain is going to be pleasure when meditation is going to touch your pain. Yes it's true. Just we are super unaware about the magic of meditation. So solution reflects itself in meditation. What is the meditation?

Super duper question that everyone should ask and no one ask, just because he or she doesn't want to show himself or herself illiterate. Because we all expect everyone else that everyone should respect you, should think that you are superior to anyone else. When people don't find it relevant and important, he or she feels the anger and instead of going with anger when we watch this anger this anger disappears because you were not you at that time. You're that anger. In other words energy can neither be created nor be destroyed but it can be transformed from one form to another. You are that energy my dear which was anger that time and anger disappears when you try to watch it, because anger becomes the watcher again. Similarly in book when we read the book we don't get enough interest and also the relevancy, reading a book only becomes the magic when reader is not there only book and reading is there. Now the study is going to be hit. Similarly as When I write my writing is not as effective when I am not there then the only writing is there. Now you need no knowledge just writing and magic goes it's way. 

That's all for today 

Till next, be happy keep learning.

Procrastination and Optimality

Environment of your surroundings is somewhere responsible for the environment of your inner and mine too. Vice-versa may be the correct. Means inner environment may be responsible for the outer environment, very much possible. Beauty of this life is that nothing is certain there, what's going to happen in the next moment is only the possibility and not the actuality. This super flexibility and possibility makes life more interesting and things or work goes best with the interest. 

Procrastination is when we left the work for the next day, there is nothing bad in leaving the work on next day, that is not included in procrastination, procrastination is when you could do the work on this day still you leave it for the next day, just because you're doing some stupid attracting thing. We tend to do that work first which provide us the fun and joy inside or in other words we don't call that action as work which gives us fund and a feeling of relaxation. It may also depend upon the results of the action. 

So when we do anything, there are two reason and states behind it, lets move to states first because they are ultimate answers to the question that why we are doing that action, right now I am writing, my level of consciousness is greater than the ordinary and when I practice this state I get clear picture of the possibility. So we were at the states, first is conscious state and another is unconscious state. When we are conscious we know what is being happened and what should be happened. Ultimately there are two reasons why the thing is happening. First is by the reactions of surrounding actions another is by our own action. These two reasons are super connected with the two states, as when we are conscious we do what is required, we oppose the wrong happening. And inversely when we are unconscious things happen automatically and without being in our acceptance. We tend to do the wrong thing which gives us joy until we get suffering in this. Just like drug, people go on consuming them until they start attacking on the functioning of body. Suddenly they realise that they are consuming the sweet poison and they try to leave it, but now it's too late. Same is the case with us, we go on practicing bad habits until they start ruining our life, start giving pain. So pleasure is the pain ultimately and pain is the pleasure when we go on getting them. Optimal solutions to life doesn't only come when we are super conscious but they May also come when we consciously unconscious. It means there are many different layers of consciousness which layer should we have which time is again a challenge or it is also a layer of consciousness. Being conscious doesn't take much energy but it takes you completely, when you try to save a little you left or missed it. 

Conflicts, Guilt and Trap of the Situations

 Self Esteem is

Something super important in life or we are going to lose the essence and essence is the basic or most important quality. Peace lies inside but we always try to find it outside. In money, prestige, honor and in many worldly things. Actually we don't know what does it mean by peace. 

Expectations are something which are mainly responsible for the grief. So does it mean that we should leave expecting? Nope, life will stop running without expectations. Then what and it's also the major attack on our false self that we expect something from others and it doesn't fulfil. Means Self is also made up for some expectations. Self esteem is a different thing. Lets find the difference by this example, let's assume we are at a railway station where some one comes and ask for some food or money, whatever. Then we just watch at him and turn our face in different direction. The person who was expecting from you is going to ask for another time and then he will leave and go for another one. He is not going to feel any disgust or anything like anger. That is because he has no self. But he may have the self esteem. Because self esteem doesn't stops you to beg, it's your 'self' which stops you to beg. Buddhist monks live on alms, it doesn't mean that they don't have self esteem. They have super self esteem but they don't have one thing that is the self. Many of the times conditions trap you in a way that you have to secure yourself by showing aggression or oppose. I'm not saying we should start begging but we should start differentiating between the ego and the self esteem. Ego is the false value of self where you expect the value in others eyes but self esteem is the value in our own eyes and ultimately in others eyes. Because they are no different from you. As we are trying to find the definitions of conflict and their reason so the definition of conflict in my way is that when situations start attacking you try to torn you. The main reason behind this your comfort zone. The people who live in super comfort are going to define every little situation as conflict. Where the people who face little super discomfort are going to neglect little conflicts. So this all is about your comfort zone. When the area increases the joy decreases. 

Guilt is something we find when there is a gap, the gap between your actual and ideal self. The gap between actual and ought self is the failure.  So the point is this gap. Only solution to guilt and the failure is to diminish this gap. This gap can only be reduced by efforts and efforts should be in perfect direction, to find this perfect dimension there is again need of efforts. This is the thing where situations traps you and now you need better understanding for right direction to choose. Because understanding is the only way to choose better direction. 

Better understanding needs your better watchfulness and watchfulness is something which gets strength by meditation. Finally the point comes to the meditation. Here watchfulness not only meant for outwards but also for inwards. Hence to understand this trap, to diminish that gap, and to find that direction to work for; the Way is sharpen the seeking and seeking can be sharpened by Dhyana.

I know I've not completely explained about the title I've mentioned still, try to get the essence be happy Keep learning.