Life 3

Whenever we expect something and it doesn't happens then it results in pain just because of the conversion of Energy as expectations first creates the space and there the eagerness or constant attraction is waiting for something and when there comes nothing, this space fills itself with the sorrow and similar frequency attracts the things towards itself. Should we avoid the thing or anything else? I think life itself is so much exuberant in itself and when you think that you have not experienced the thing which you must at that time than it may be called as wrong perception and we should correct it by knowing the actuality and actuality is that we can't escape from the experience and life when we are in life because another name of the life is experience itself. Every moment we feel, expect and experience something and this is life in itself. Nothingness in itself is also a experience and it may be beautiful for someone and for someone it may be worst. Because most people believe that if there is no up and down in life the life is meaning less. Some believe in middle path and they may be the buddhists, but according to the situations and conditions we get the influence and this influence can be super responsible for our perception and tuning of life. Yes life itself has tuning, just because every molecule of this universe is vibrating at a certain frequency and every frequency has some tuning of its own. Hence we tune some vibration and bend the reality in the way we want. But that's again the question that what we want May or May not be correct for us. That's why we leave the destiny in the hands of nature and its forces. Hence we become free from many forces of our own. Then it comes to the attraction and attachments, attraction leads to the attachments, when we continuously think about the good traits of some people it leads to the creation of a magnet type conditioning and that conditioning continuously takes the thoughts and emotion related to the person. Finally the attachment happens we becomes addicted of the goodness of that particular person. After attachment when situation changes the people, change their tendency and it's natural that the modification happen. Hence the people or person whom we are attracted so much is no more there attachment pluck itself and when this attachment breaks, it leads to the pain again. Hence, again I want to draw our attension to that four noble truths, 1st is, There is suffering in this life. 2 There is some valid reason/cause behind these sufferings. 3rd is, there is solution too and finally 4th is, there must be some way that must be leading towards the end of suffering. But if you are someone who is trying to end the suffering without actually having them, you are on a wrong track. You can only find the way to the end of suffering when you will be able to know them completely. If you don't know what does it mean by suffering and you are in search of end. No way, how foolish. It's like a person is searching for a black cat in dark night and in dark room, and cat is actually not there. But someone says, cat is not there and you accept it, actually you are not accepting it, acceptance only happens when your inner says yes there is no cat. So let the people say whatever they like, you just go on searching it until you search in the every corner of this room. Leave it only when your inner say, yes there is no cat. Its almost like our own life. We are actually trying to find the things which are not there, like we try to find the peace in money, prestige. But actually the joy is not there in these things. But I will not say leave the things and search with me the things worth joy. Na na, try your best and see, is there joy our it's just making your ego more larger, and one more thing as larger the ego is, same larger are the chances of breakage and hence the pain.

That's all for today, till next be happy keep learning.