Human: A Beautiful Creature with Diverse Phases and Emotions
One of these emotions is being possessive toward someone. It's beautiful as long as it doesn't reach levels of cruelty. Possessiveness gives a sweet cage where you feel valued when you're possessed. This value is a cage, not so bad, but something that keeps you feeling safe.
Evolution of Possessiveness
Humans start feeling better with someone over time. This feeling leads to possession—the feeling of "mine," the feeling of authority over another. The idea that a particular person belongs to him/her has ideological backgrounds variable by surroundings. For example, in Haryana, a married woman is often identified with her husband. The husband possesses his wife, making her "his" pride and value.
Merits of Possessiveness
When someone craves for you, it's a nutritious feeling—the feeling of being valued and cared for. It's when humans get the sweetness of life, beauty unfolds, and self-esteem rises. This feeling ups your frequency level, making you more vibrant, and things get done easily.
Am I thinking in a political or capitalistic way? Should I reflect on this too? Of course, yes. I was slightly capitalist there and should be humanist only. Whatever, the purpose is to reflect, and I'm doing so.
Demerits of Possessiveness
Understanding the demerits, we see the suffering humans face—the cage they get into and try to be free from. It discourages abilities in many dimensions. You might feel like an engaged laborer worried about being fired and dying of hunger. Phobia affects physical and mental health, making you fragile.
Solutions
Every beautiful thing is vulnerable to being lost or perished. That's the nature of beauty. Osho says when you're in continuous fear of losing something, it means that thing wasn't yours and can never be. It's a trap of nature. Water and moments can't be trapped in your hand; they flow. Beauty can't be hidden; it flourishes.
Instead of being in phobia, let the water flow, let the moment pass, and be happy learning that this water and moment passed through you. That's what good destiny means. Live life with each ounce and explore creation. Ultimately, your balloon of consciousness will burst, and you'll no longer see the universe's beauty.
That's all for today. Till next, be happy, keep living. InPeace. Das Rahul.
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