Hold versus Exuberance

 The Mother and her hood, combined called the Motherhood. We are purely made of our Parents' matters and most from our Mothers. She had kept us in her womb for 9 months. So the Attachment is natural as well as logical. Natural, because we are ultimately made up of her. Logical because of her seamless love and care. We are there to talk of the Difference between the Exuberance and the Hold. Exuberance is nothing but the overflow and hold is nothing but the Reflection of being empty. The everytime I try to explore myself some already placed thoughts and emotions create the programming like situation and filter my Ideology, which is coming directly from inside. So When thoughts comes From inside something is there which shape them and that's also a good thing because that wall or filter through which the thoughts are being filtered works most Optimally as per the requirement of time as well as the need of the situation. This wall or filter is called our intelligence. Intelligence defines the difference between right and wrong as per the data provided to It by our influence, source of knowledge, food, and Logic. I think logic should not be there as part but the essentiality. Logic is the Dimention of Intelligence and not its food I think. You'll say how can the food we eat influence our intelligence to work a way we are known. See, simple concept of Runanbandha applies there every element of this Universe contains some amount of Memory, not necessarily in the form of words of human beings but memory is ther definitely because Without memory there is no vision, no existence. Yes existence itself is some type of memory, not exactly same everywhere but it is spread everywhere. We were trying to explore the existence of relations with Hold and the Exuberance. See human beings have two forms and They vary Accordingly. One is When s/he feels less and try to find another one, another when s/he feels exuberant and Explore himself/herself. Exuberance can also flow in two ways one positively and another negatively. 

But issue is where will this exuberance be coming from? See, we are part of this Nature and nature is exuberant by its nature and hence we. Life itself is a gift of this nature and the source of creation which is continuously exploring and creating something new in each minute mini second. We were there to understand the Difference between the hold and the exuberance. Simply Hold means the hold and no Further growth Where the Exuberance is the support, yes support in your growth and enlightenment. The positivity and hold is Something which is negative. Seems positive Because we think person loves us, actually the Hold Simply defines the lessening of person and fear lurking inside. In this situation the person is in dire need of Understanding. Until s/he starts Feelings Complete Exuberance s/he won't be able to explore his/her love. Mother is full of love Because doesn't need any transaction and pure exploration will find the ways there. Where in lovers situation they explore for each other and one will definitely be weaker Without another. Mother has borne you for 9 months and now she is free, she won't keep you inside for longer. Now she can just give you From her Side her hold had been completed and now It's mature. You're ready to travel the world independently. Now comes the turn of someone you Share your body feelings, emotions and life. Here when you try to hold you Actually lose the relation and when You express you Actually gain the situation so whatever the Situation, when you express yourself With utmost care and truthfulness you get the clarity and peace. 

Now It's 12 and I think I should sleep now. So That's all for today guys, till next be happy Keep Learning. 

Das Rahul

Relations

 The every Understanding, every Reflection, every flow, Every influence which I try to Explore, is so related to Humans and their well being that it is losing the meanings of being well. The difference between the well being and not bring well is diminishing day by day. Whatever, Let's explode the inner With the help of words. See, dilemmas happen, and happen with utmost severity only when you make them severe. Otherwise no dilemma is as severe as dilemma of life and death which is happening day by day. The Every second, the every Minute of our life is something related to us as deeper as our life and death. Every second of our life we with the source of creation chose either life or death. The more life we choose the more exuberant our aura seems to be and the more death we choose the more dull and ill will we seem. As said earlier every second of our life is a choice and choice of Right and wrong. Difference is right is to be chosen by us and wrong chose us if we are unable to chose the right. Your own fragility becomes Your enemy. Fragility is nothing but loss of Power or potential in you will or muscles. Yes fragility has many types. Every Dimension of human can have a type of Fragility and human has many dimensions or Infinite if I'm true. Yes human is a Infinite Possibility, just because s/he is having infinite dimensions and every dimension is connected to human in a way that way may be called as the relation of that Particular Human. These relations define your Control over that Particular Dimention just like the relations of humans. How Strong your relation with that particular human is what defines your knowingness with that human being. Your trust appears by your truthfulness, your transparent nature. Unless you sacrifice yourself Completely to that human you won't be able to get his/her Complete Synchronization. Simply You'll have to lose yourself to get him/her Completely. Doubts and misunderstanding appears with little distrust and disbelief. The more You'll be hiding the more You're making your relation weaker. Strong disbelief and non clearing of doubt leads to the breakage of relation and this is the misconception actually that every human is having from the very starting of his birth. Your relation with another human Never breaks. It is concerted into ang other form. Or if I say Every human is so connected to another human that there is no way of being disconnected. It is like the Infinite ways of being fragile, your relation gets weaker but it never breaks. Relations are like plants they need the water of time and energy to keep them alive but exception is that, after a little time if you don't water the plant it will die but if you Don't water your Relation it will be going weaker and weaker day by day but will never die. Just like infinite it has its Possibility of being in very depth. Yes humans are mortal and die a day. But relations are eternal. Because human is made of energy and energy can neither be created nor be destroyed, Simply humans transform their being but never dies. In the same ways these relations remain alive. Natural process takes place in our death and birth but Spiritual process takes place in energizing and weakening of our relations. Being alive and watching ourself is enough for us, how much are we alive is the thing going to define the strength of our relations and hence the life of our dimensions. There are the dimension related to your lust, desires and spirituality etc. Human can have Infinite forms it is upon you, with which Dimension you want a better Relation and with which you want weaker. I mostly example the Rama right, because I'm a big fan of him. Soo Rama has strongest relations with his dimension of being Maryada Purushottam, simply the One who is bound by the Maryada the rules of Society. He was happy and bright With this Nature and accepted the socio as it is. The real freedom comes when we accept and Struggle with our refusal. Opposite na. Still That's the reality. Whatever, Understanding is also a dimension and it becomes stronger when our relation With knowingness becomes stronger. Ravana is another example, he had very strong relations with his ego, anger and many negative things. Because he watered his these Relations in his whole life. 

That was my tiny Understanding related to Relations. Till next Be Happy keep Learning. 

DasRahul

InPeace

Beyonds

May the Bliss of Buddha touch our Hearts, May his Divinity bring auspiciousness in our Aura.

May we dip a little in his Enlightenment.

May our lives be able to get The meanings of Essense. 

Here we try to find the essense and meanings of Life. As Budha said, Liberation is nothing but the Enlightenment and Enlightenment is actually the knowingness and completed level of Awareness, the Complete realisation of our Consciousness. We all know we have the consciousness or We are the consciousness Actually, but this knowingness doesn't seem real, just because we are Completely being failed in realisation of its essense and hence we find it difficult to accept Internally. We deny the existence of beauty until we watch it Completely and from each of the side. Similarly we fine it very difficult to accept that we are nothing but this consciousness. Life is passing and continuously passing day by day, every second is as Important as the most valuable diamond of this world. Life throws the Situations against you and when you try to escape you escape the fruits thrown by the life itself. It's Important to realise that when we run from the situations, that is never going To provide any solution rather it will be making that particular problem larger and larger. So better it is that you face that difficulty and cross it consciously. There a large difference between escape and going Beyond. 

We go beyond something only if we go through it consciously and by responding every Question posed by it. The 'It' there is your life circumstance and situation. Whatever it is, It's Always a better option to go beyond and not the escape. 

Where the escape means, when we close our eyes and wait for the Situation to be sorted out on Its own. Life doesn't work this way. Now When you are going to open your eyes you are going to find that the Situation which was just a situation till that time, has become a large hurdle for you.

That was the Suggestion and now Let's try to understand the Process of Going Beyonds.

Beyonds, 

When we open our eyes, definitely there is something to see. Something Beautiful and something ugly. It's on ours that what we watch. There is a story of two thieves connected this Very Philosophy. The story says, once two thieves were arrested and captured in a dark and filthy prison for a night. One them started Gazing at the Cool Moon of that Night. Another started complaining about the situation of Prison and when Morning appeared, policemen saw one of them is died and another was as fresh as he was locked the day before. 

Simply, the one who chosen the bright side of the life, started gaining the Bright Side and then another who started complaining and watched only filth there in this dark room lost his time and life there. 

Similarly in our life, Life always provide you to chose one of the option either be Positive or negative will attract you on its own. 

In the very process of going beyond the situation we watch both the sides but Don't be attached to anything. We watch reflect, and respond the best as per our capability. One more fact about life is that it Does never throw you in the hurdle which you can't afford. You're the center of this Universe now and now you have to decide for your world. Your every selection of thought and Emotion matters more than anything else that is happening around you.

Now I'm Feelings so Much Sleepy Guys

Till we come with next, be happy and Healthy, Keep Learning and Explore the Beauty of this Creation as deeper as You can.

In Peace 

DasRahul