Aham

Understanding “Aham” — The Subtle Dance of Ego and Self

Hello everyone,
I hope this blog finds you in peace, growth, and good health. Today’s discussion is something deeply personal and universally relevant — “Aham”, the Ego, the “I” that shapes and sometimes shackles us.

Let’s take a mindful journey into this concept — to see how it arises, how it serves us, how it harms us, and ultimately, how we can transcend it.

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The Birth of Aham — The Identity We Carry

From the moment we are born, we start collecting identities.
A name, a face, a family, a nation — layers upon layers that slowly whisper into our ears: “This is who you are.”

But somewhere beneath all those layers lies something pure — the witness, the silent observer — untouched by praise or insult. Yet, as life unfolds, our Aham begins to take center stage. It becomes our sense of “me” — the one that wants to be appreciated, recognized, and never disrespected.

Just like gold’s true worth is known only to the one who possesses it, ego’s true burden is understood only by the one who carries it. When our ego grows, we start fearing insult more than failure, judgment more than truth. And this fear silently governs our actions, our relationships, even our dreams.

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The Mirror Effect — How Others Shape Our Ego

Our Aham isn’t formed in isolation. It reflects the way others see us — and the way we see them. When someone praises us, the ego expands. When criticized, it contracts and hurts.

That’s why the people we surround ourselves with matter so much. Positive souls uplift us, not by feeding our ego, but by connecting with our essence. Negative energy, however, magnifies insecurity and attachment.

So ask yourself — who are you surrounded by? Do they reflect your truth or your fears?

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The Two Faces of Aham — Pros and Cons

Like every force in the universe, Aham has two sides.

The Cons:
When the ego becomes oversized, it makes us fragile. We take offense easily, lose balance in decisions, and distance ourselves from humility. We start living not to experience life, but to protect an image. This imbalance disturbs our peace and creates inner turmoil.

The Pros:
A balanced Aham can actually serve as a moral compass. It pushes us to act with dignity, avoid dishonorable deeds, and maintain our integrity in society. It gives us the drive to grow and express ourselves — but only when it’s in check.

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The Middle Path — Beyond the Ego

The Buddha taught the Middle Path — a way between indulgence and denial. The secret isn’t to destroy the ego, but to understand it. Once we see that the ego is not our true self, its grip begins to fade.

The great yogis and sages say, “You are not the body, not the mind, not even the identity you defend.”
Everything that arises will dissolve — the soil returns to soil, air to air, and yet the essence of existence remains untouched.

So why fight over illusions? Why build walls around what doesn’t even belong to us?

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The Maya — The Grand Illusion

Maya — the cosmic illusion — keeps us bound to names, forms, achievements, and attachments. It seduces our awareness away from truth, making us believe the play is reality. Ego is one of Maya’s finest creations — a clever disguise to keep the mind busy.

But the meaning of life isn’t to escape Maya — it’s to see it clearly. To live amidst it, aware that it’s a divine performance. To watch the dance of life unfold without clinging to every step.

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Living Without Attachment

To live means to experience — to feel joy, pain, love, and loss — yet remain the witness of it all. Don’t drown in your emotions; dance with them. Don’t run from Maya; observe her beauty.

True freedom comes when we stop saying “This is mine” and start saying “This too shall pass.”
When you live like that, life becomes not a struggle, but a song — poetic, peaceful, and profoundly romantic.

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Final Thoughts

In the end, Aham is both the mask and the mirror. It helps us walk through the world, but it should never become the world itself.
Balance it. Observe it. And when the time comes, let it go.

Until next time, stay mindful, stay kind, and keep learning.
In peace and awareness,
— Das Rahul

Manipulation

The universe is a grand dance of opposites — the active and the passive. One breathes life, the other lies dormant. But here's the fascinating part: these roles aren't fixed. What is active today can become passive tomorrow, and vice versa. This transformation depends on time, environment, and circumstances.

And that brings us to something powerful — manipulation.

You've probably heard of data manipulation in programming, where raw information is shaped into something functional. In a strikingly similar way, humans are constantly manipulated by the data they receive from their surroundings — media, education, conversations, culture, politics. Even as you read this blog, a subtle form of manipulation is happening. But don’t be alarmed — not all manipulation is bad.

Let’s unpack that.

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The Human Mind: A Blank Slate Turned Masterpiece

When you were born, your mind was a clean slate. No language. No biases. No identity. Over time, you learned to walk, speak, and think. You began to categorize the world — good or bad, right or wrong. These thoughts weren't entirely your own. They were fed to you, and you absorbed them like a sponge.

This, right here, is manipulation.

But it’s not evil by default. Without this kind of influence, you wouldn’t have learned how to survive or make sense of the world. Manipulation becomes harmful only when it hijacks your conscious awareness, turning you into a blind follower rather than an active thinker.

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Modern Manipulation: The Political and Social Game

Take politics, for instance. Leaders craft powerful narratives, convincing you to see the world through their lens. They tell you that your community is under threat, that your identity is under attack. Gradually, you begin to feel a strong emotional pull — fear, anger, loyalty — and before you know it, you're acting on someone else’s agenda.

This isn’t just politics; it’s programming.

I once had no strong religious identity. But when a government with a particular ideology came to power, I began to feel more aligned with a certain community, more reactive to perceived threats, and more willing to act out of fear. That’s when it hit me — I was being manipulated.

And when enough people fall into that trap, the consequences can be devastating: riots, division, even genocide. All for someone else’s gain.

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How Do We Break Free?

The antidote to manipulation is awareness.

To be mindful is to become an active participant in your own life. To question, reflect, and evaluate everything you absorb. It’s about filtering data through your own inner wisdom, not just accepting it blindly because it came from a leader, a religion, or a trend.

One of the best frameworks I’ve found for cultivating this awareness is the Ashtangik Marg — the Noble Eightfold Path of Buddha. It encourages right thought, right speech, right action, and most importantly, right awareness. These aren’t religious doctrines; they are tools for living consciously.

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Let Go of False Labels

Religion, caste, race — these are identities that often divide rather than unite. When we cling too tightly to them, we forget our shared humanity. True peace is not the absence of conflict, but the presence of harmony between all beings, regardless of labels.

So, whether it’s political narratives, social media algorithms, or outdated beliefs — don’t let them turn you into a passive receiver.

Be active.
Be aware.
Be free.

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In Closing

Manipulation is everywhere — in words, in media, in tradition. But the solution isn't fear. It's understanding. Awareness. Mindfulness.

Your consciousness is your strongest defense.

So next time you read, listen, or scroll — pause. Ask yourself: “Is this truly me, or am I being programmed?”

Stay curious.
Stay awake.
Stay human.

Until next time,
Be happy. Keep learning.

Das Rahul

In Peace.

Interests

The True Nature of Humanity: Beyond Ideologies and Biases

Humans are born simple, unbiased, and with a pure heart. But as we journey through life, the world around us shapes and molds us, sometimes leading us to become complex, biased, and driven by ideologies. The beauty of the universe lies in the fact that we are constantly influenced by the people and circumstances around us.

From the moment we are born, the values and beliefs of our family begin to shape us. As we step into the world of education, the type of school we attend, and the friends we make, continue to mold our identity. What I’m trying to explore here is this: the true nature of a human being is not defined by their caste, creed, race, or family background. These are external influences that life imparts on us. At our core, humans are pure—innocent, clear-hearted, and with a simpler view of the world.

But as life goes on, we develop interests and biases that lead us to align with certain ideologies, sometimes even justifying violence. But why does this happen? Let’s explore this through a story.

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The Story of Karna: A Journey from Identity to Purpose

Once upon a time, a boy was born into a wealthy, affluent family, but with one catch—his mother was unmarried. Realizing the societal pressures she faced, she left her newborn son in a basket, floating on a river. Fate had other plans, though. A kind-hearted man, who was taking his morning bath by the river, found the boy. Moved by his innocence and sweetness, he took the child home and presented him to his wife, who had long suffered from infertility. The woman, overjoyed to have a child, adopted him and raised him with love, giving him her name and imparting the knowledge of rituals and traditions.

The boy grew strong, trained as a warrior, and eventually fought for the marginalized community he identified with. Later in life, he discovered his true origins—the life he was born into and the life he had been living were two very different realities. He realized that his true identity had been shaped by the world around him. But, instead of rejecting his present life, he embraced it. He chose to continue fighting for his community, proud of who he had become, even though his origins were far different.

This story is of Karna, the Daanveer Karna—one of the most noble and tragic figures in Indian mythology. His entire life was spent serving his community, making them proud, and fighting for justice.

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Life’s Path: The Influence of Maya

The path Karna chose was a reflection of his life’s philosophy, goals, and lifestyle—the three essential elements that define the human journey. From the moment we are born, we are influenced by external forces, which often lead us down a path that distances us from our true selves. This is the "maya"—the illusion or the veil—that clouds our vision and keeps us from seeing our authentic nature.

In the beginning, the philosophy we inherit or create in our minds is often false, shaped by external influences. This is where the world of maya takes root. The more we drift from our true essence, the more struggles and challenges we face. It’s a cycle that perpetuates suffering.

As we learn and grow, we must remember that the path we choose—the goals we set, the ideologies we adopt—are not always our true calling. They are often products of the world’s influence on us. The deeper we fall into this illusion, the further we drift from who we really are.

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Conclusion: Embrace Your True Nature

At the end of the day, the world may try to shape us, define us, and even push us toward biased ideologies. But the truth is, the real human being is pure, simple, and free from these labels. Just like Karna, we can choose to live with integrity, fighting for what is right, and serving our community, no matter where we come from.

So, as we journey through life, let’s not forget who we truly are. Let’s strip away the layers of maya and reconnect with our pure, innocent heart. The more we align ourselves with our true nature, the more peace we will find, both within and in the world around us.

Until next time, stay happy and keep learning.

Das Rahul

In Peace.

Possessiveness

Human: A Beautiful Creature with Diverse Phases and Emotions

One of these emotions is being possessive toward someone. It's beautiful as long as it doesn't reach levels of cruelty. Possessiveness gives a sweet cage where you feel valued when you're possessed. This value is a cage, not so bad, but something that keeps you feeling safe.

Evolution of Possessiveness

Humans start feeling better with someone over time. This feeling leads to possession—the feeling of "mine," the feeling of authority over another. The idea that a particular person belongs to him/her has ideological backgrounds variable by surroundings. For example, in Haryana, a married woman is often identified with her husband. The husband possesses his wife, making her "his" pride and value.

Merits of Possessiveness

When someone craves for you, it's a nutritious feeling—the feeling of being valued and cared for. It's when humans get the sweetness of life, beauty unfolds, and self-esteem rises. This feeling ups your frequency level, making you more vibrant, and things get done easily.

Am I thinking in a political or capitalistic way? Should I reflect on this too? Of course, yes. I was slightly capitalist there and should be humanist only. Whatever, the purpose is to reflect, and I'm doing so.

Demerits of Possessiveness

Understanding the demerits, we see the suffering humans face—the cage they get into and try to be free from. It discourages abilities in many dimensions. You might feel like an engaged laborer worried about being fired and dying of hunger. Phobia affects physical and mental health, making you fragile.

Solutions

Every beautiful thing is vulnerable to being lost or perished. That's the nature of beauty. Osho says when you're in continuous fear of losing something, it means that thing wasn't yours and can never be. It's a trap of nature. Water and moments can't be trapped in your hand; they flow. Beauty can't be hidden; it flourishes.

Instead of being in phobia, let the water flow, let the moment pass, and be happy learning that this water and moment passed through you. That's what good destiny means. Live life with each ounce and explore creation. Ultimately, your balloon of consciousness will burst, and you'll no longer see the universe's beauty.

That's all for today. Till next, be happy, keep living. InPeace. Das Rahul.

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Reflections or Refraction

There are two words in Physics, One is Reflection and other is Refraction. Can we employ these words in Philosophy? 

Lets try.

See, one is reflection, reflection has many meanings in the philosophy. Reflection Means to reflect the Ideas. It is the way by which we see ourselves. According to ancient texts there are three states human lives in. Swapna, Jagriti, Shushupta and Turiya. Shushupta is the state when human has no awareness of consciousness. Jagruti means when human is aware of outer world and Swapna is the imaginations or pictures of outer collected while in Jagruti. Swapnas are less real. The best state all Yogis tries to be in is Turiya Avastha. Turiya awastha is Believed to be best State a human can be in. In this state, Human is conscious of inner and outer as well. In this meanwhile he is conscious of the actions and its reaction as well. Turiya also means nothing, the state when nothing is there as hurdle in vision. Turiya is the source of this vision itself. Still a state. Reflection is the way to attain this Turiya, who is the attainer itself. This is the beauty of this life that we are trying to attain ourselves. Which is already there and just below the sand of thoughts, imaginations and imprints captured inside. 

The question that first erupt was Who am I?

So there is a story behind it and that story is already told in some earlier blog. For now what is the logic.

So first lets recall our motive to write and read. It is that we are tryin to understand the human consciousness the imagination and the reflection that needs our Turiya to be recognised by itself. 

Yes, reflection is the way and reflection is that which is happening for now. Yes, for now reflection is happening. By writing, we are watching the writings of ourselves. Yes there have been a lot of time since writing but whats the point now. 

Buddha invested his whole life in the state of Turiya. He was believed to be the best conscious human of his time, who was able to recall his previous lives as well and the dreams. That's all the meaning of this state. Turiya is the consciousness of the Swapna, Jagruti, Sushupta and any other possible state that might exist. 

So, question is how to attain the Turiya?

Answere is, this meditative step. Yes the meditative step that might influence your each and every action and its reaction. The thing that is more important then the money, status, prestige is the life itself and that is fully available only when you are in Turiya avastha. Otherwise there is no life. There are only that three states of unconsciousness and in these unconscious states human do every type of wrong thing. When you are no longer aware or in the turiya awastha you are no longer away from mistakes. You are only capable to do the right things when you are aware and aware of every awastha. The vision will be happening on its own when you do the awakening practice.

Most important practice of being mindful is this reflection. In this state you attain the right path and right reflection as well as the right answers to the questions. The questions are going to disappear when you are the answere itself and you can be the answere when there is no state of being slept. Yes body sleeps and there is need to be slept. But when you sleep, you leave this body in the waves of life reactions.

Hatred, Jealousy, Anger the every feeling that is called wrong only happen when you don't have the right knowledge and this make me recall of Buddha's eightfold path. Yes the right learning, right understanding, right mindfulness, right thinking, etc. I am not recalling every path, but there is the eight fold path to attain the libration the Moksha. 

So is the term libration, how to attain it. Is it the right thing to attain?

Before going further, let's clear that the libration is nothing but the detatachment from the worldly things and these worldly things are nothing but the human entanglements that make the human suffer. So what are the things that make human entangled. One is Moha or attachment of brother, sister, mother, father, wife and then is the expectation. When human doesn't have anything with him. He expect from others instead of earning his own. That becomes the main cause of his suffering. Then what's the way? How to be librated that suffering can be removed from human life?

These are really very dangerous things in the life of human and expectations become bigger and bigger day by day, when they are fulfilled. What is the solution?

How to be non expected?

See, when you don't have something and that is your need then only you become needy and expect it from someone else, who have it in the deepest forms. Then you toil hard and earn the value you required. Then the value blossoms and you become relief for others too. But there is a difference between these material needs and emotional needs. Human is potentially designed to have emotions with him. There is another body then the physical body and that body is the soul. Yes the soul is your emotional body that gets the impact from love, care, hatred, jealousy and every emotional reaction. You get the reflection of your physical body by watching into the mirror but if you want to look your soul, watch in your surroundings and then you will be able to see the truth that how people thinks of you. Who are you actually. But this whole process is nothing but the reflection and when you get entangled with someone. You starts expecting something from him/her, then you are doing nothing but the refrection. There is diversity in the emotions and these emotions are nothing but the assets of our soul the sensitivity of this soul is the real reflection of you. One has to understand you fully. Then only you get the real meanings. Ego is another thing, Ego is nothing but the realization that you have this body called soul and care of it by neglecting the soul of others. Ego becomes stronger and stronger by each and every food of emotion that is invested in it. The practice is what make that part more and more stronger. The practice of anger is going to make you perfect in anger and the practice of love is going to make you perfect in doing love. Same is the thing with every emotion and part of your soft body that is your soul. In the opinion of buddha love is the best thing to practice among the people and anger jealousy is  the worst. Because ultimately your soft body impacts your hard body in the same way. You physical body becomes the way your soft body is. So, maintain a good healthy soft body so that your physical outlook will become a blessing for the entire universe and not a curse.

That's all for today.

till next be happy keep learning.

In Peace 

DAS_RAHUL